I had to contact him to ask for my house key back. it had been a week since I asked for him to return it. I met him, I said thank you. he said nothing then just walked away, with me crying behind him.
he then text me at 3am "youre a dream btw..." like a nightmare orr? so I replied simply with "pardon.."
him: :Your still in my dreams, get out of my head"
me: "Okay... I mean I wasnt even worth talking to earlier but okay"
"In fact, I wasn't worth talking to at all really was I?" (because our relationship ended because he basically ghosted me"
him:" i can't sleep I need you"
me: "You had me."
him: "Let me hold you"
soooo I locked my phone and went to sleep. cause like where was he when I needed him?
Last updated on:2025-09-12T02:28:40+05:30
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i was in a similar situation and decided to completely change my door lock. it was cheap and fast. are you sure this was not just an excuse for you to see him again? hope you will get the strength to get over him. a few months ago it seemed imposibile to me, now I am getting detached slowly but steady. please block and go no contact. and no stalking from fake profiles! this was my last issue but now with almost a week of no contact even with stalking I don't even have the curiosity anymore. be strong!
he wanted comfort only on his terms. when it was your need he vanished. when it was his he reached out. i remember that pattern too.
i had almost the same moment. face to face silence then hours later my phone lit up with sweet words. it hurt because i would have given anything for him to say it to me when i was standing there.
no cause literally, he didnt even say that sort of stuff when we were in a relationship
i hated that shit. being ignored in person then suddenly late night texts like i mattered again. i remember thinking wow, now you find your voice when i’m not in front of you.
From this anecdote alone he sounds really inconsistent. You deserve better than that.
oh he is inconsistent and so unreliable