i was talking with my friends and saw him coming. i did not talk with him for 3 weeks. i saw him again after THREE WEEKS. i still don’t know how i made it this far. but im so proud of myself. the moment i saw him all i felt was anger, like how can you put a girl through so much feelings? from feeling loved to ignore me over and over again. the WORST part about my story is, we never made it official. he was the one who had a thing for me, and i felt for it. when i talked about him if he wanted to try to be official his response was : “i don’t know and i need to think about it” but how can you be with me for 8 MONTHS unofficial and do all this sort relationship stuff but not try that? we always had been a talking stage and nothing more. i was just some kind of lust object to him, cause he knew when he needed me i would be there. no matter where or when. he would just lead me on over and over again so i wouldn’t go to anyone else but him. i’m happy i don’t talk to him anymore. i still got the feeling he is stalking my socials lol
Last updated on:2025-10-01T02:17:02+05:30
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tell him directly how his actions made you feel? or did you just stop talking when you realized what was going on?
you’re already doing the hardest part — staying away. keep reminding yourself what he actually gave you, not what you wished he would. that always helped me stay firm when i wanted to go back.
thanksss im trying
i was “talking” to someone for almost a year and he’d act like my bf but never call me his girl. the mix of anger relief when i finally walked away was wild.
THATS SO REAL