Forget it, not him

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He is never coming back, so I have to live my life. But I don't want to forget him, I love him so much... So, I am trying to forget it, not to forget him... In that way, he will remain in my heart forever, but it won't hurt that much. Does anyone else think that way?

Last updated on:2025-10-31T10:40:10+05:30

Comments (8)

unfitheart
unfitheart 6 mths ago

that’s such a tender way to see it. do you feel like keeping that love alive helps you move on, or does it sometimes pull you back a bit?

Boubouki
Boubouki 6 mths ago

Of course it pulls me back, but I want that love in my heart forever... He is such a good man, I will always love him...

WildSun457
WildSun457 6 mths ago

I know I won’t forget him. he will stay in my heart forever. even if we don’t talk anymore. it’s impossible to forget the memories with him. I know with time I’m not going to feel sadness every time I remember him.

Boubouki
Boubouki 6 mths ago

How are you coping with that? I am afraid that I am not going to make it...

Libasavogh
Libasavogh 6 mths ago

this actually sounds like a really gentle way to heal. letting love exist without letting it consume you. just keep reminding yourself that remembering doesn’t mean holding on.

Boubouki
Boubouki 6 mths ago

It's the only way to breath again without forgetting him...

rivadepp
rivadepp 6 mths ago

i did the same with someone i loved for years. i stopped trying to erase him and just made peace with the fact that he’ll always live somewhere quiet in my heart. that shift… it’s what finally stopped the ache.

Boubouki
Boubouki 6 mths ago

How are you doing now? I am afraid that, even if something good is going to happen to me, I won't feel happy... I am sure that I am always gonna have that feeling of emptiness...