I think in a way it also upsets me. how he blames me for the relationship ending. when we had our closure talk he acknowledged how he was a hypocrite and how he did the same thing to me. When I begged him to be there for me, he refused and put a lot of other things before me. It went on for months with no change and constant asking. Yet when I didnt realise he felt he wasnt a priority, because he never communicated, he just broke up with me. I think typing it and seeing this really just hurts. I feel like he took a lot from me and wouldn't give anything back to me. I really gave him my all. I just dont know why I wasnt good enough
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you begged him to be there for you back then, did he ever actually try to change for a bit, or was it mostly the same pattern the whole time?
he told me his events were more important and didnt agree that he should have to listen to my feelings over events at work. it took months for him to finally agree that he should have been there for me because it had affected me so much. earlier in our relationship we had never had this problem. he had always been attentive and kind. it was just in our last year that he changed.
i’ve been blamed for a breakup too even when my ex admitted he did the same things to me. that twist in your head where you start wondering if you were the problem… i know that feeling way too well.