This will be his last chance to talk to me. I’ve made that promise to myself. After all the blameshifting and deflecting, I just feel empty. I'm tired of this 'on and off' relationship; if he were truly the right man for me, he would never leave me like this.
Last updated on:2026-04-13T19:22:31+05:30
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Possibly, he can't help devalueing you when things get real and serious, because he has an avoidant attachment style. which protects his freedom and fear of failure by focusing on every minor fault you have. as soon as youre on a safe distance that mechanism disappears and he longs for you again. no amount of good will can change this, only maybe serious honesty and therapy
when you picture him reaching out again, do you feel any real hope… or just that same tired feeling coming back?
I'm still hoping for him to treat me nice next tine... because everytime I overthink, I feel unheard..
i stayed in an on and off thing for way too long and the empty feeling was worse than the actual fights. it’s like you slowly disappear trying to make it work.