It was not a long relationship. It was no relationship at all. We meet and he was like addicted to me, he don't wanted to leave and even if I knew it wasn't a good sign, I let it happen. So we were together for 15 days without a break. He had so many red flags I can't even count them and on one night when he was ignoring me I left without saying anything. The next day we figured out something and we really wanted to make it work. But it just took him one day to break one rule I made that was necessary for me to stay in a relationship with him. He also flirted with other girls which hurt me and made me write him that under these circumstances I don't want to continue. I still offered him to speak but he since then is silent. My problem is that I'm still sad, even if I know that he was really not a nice person and for sure the completely wrong person for me. Even if I know I did the best leaving. Why? After 15 days.... Also have a big problem not following his storys. I think it would make it easier but I can't stop myself from watching them. What is something that could help? The breakup happened one week ago. I got back to my creative process, I talked a lot with friends and even my therapist, I do sports and long walks. But still there is this sadness that he keeps living his life (even if it seems like he is in not a good place) like this whole thing didn't mean anything to him.
Last updated on:2026-04-16T22:10:07+05:30
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Every time you think to go on his social media, drop your phone and drink a glass of water slowly. You're in attention withdrawal, not any emotional bond. You're worth more than hes treating you. Drop his butt and move on, continuing to keep busy so your mind has no time to ruminating.
you are a human you will feel sad its normal