it's been more than 2 months since the breakup...and i have actually started rebuilding my life, i focued on my career, on my self, setting new standards, boundaries, and new dreams to chase..it doesn't feel like i miss him anymore, infact i am doing a lot well without him to the point that sometimes i feel thankful that he is gone, because with him, my mind was on in constant anxiety.
but occasionally i find myself rehearsing arguments in my head, or rehearsing a speech that i will say to him...an angry speech.... i don't know why i do that but i think once those thoughts stop...I'll move on 100%
Last updated on:2026-05-11T01:04:07+05:30
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it's been 14 days after breakup and I am feeling exactly how I feel.One thing you should do is allow that feeling to come through,there will come a point you don't even think of him or constantly rehearse a speech for him.It gets better with time,you are doing really well❤️🩹
those imaginary arguments are more about what he did to you, or about the version of yourself that stayed anxious for so long?
I'm so happy for you, you're very strong, it will pass soon 100%.