Why did he lie? just found out he has a girlfriend

I was doing so well moving on living my life but i just found out he has a girlfriend after telling me after we broke up the first time he doesn’t want a relationship and that he wasn’t speaking to other girls which was clearly a lie, i’m literally broken like i don’t even want him back it just feels like betrayal i’m so hurt

Last updated on:2026-05-18T05:06:12+05:30

Comments (7)

Aware010
Aware010 2 wks ago

finding that stuff out can reopen wounds you thought were finally healing.

stillsad
stillsad 2 wks ago

my ex pulled the same “i don’t want a relationship right now” line and then suddenly had a whole new girlfriend. it’s not even about wanting them back anymore

plant820
plant820 2 wks ago

did you actually find out he was talking to her during the breakup, or is your mind filling in blanks right now because of how fast it happened?

WildSprout548
WildSprout548 2 wks ago

it’s confirmed lol

LazerBoy855
LazerBoy855 2 wks ago

yes it shattered you completely
but just think of him as a low lying creature and thank god that he took.him out of your life and keep moving on..thats the best answer to auch a man

HopeDealer538
HopeDealer538 2 wks ago

Just know that he isn't treating her any different or any better than he treated you. men don't change. if you wouldnt be jealous of how you were treated then dont be jealous of her

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 2 wks ago

it is absolutely devastating to find out he can give something you wanted so bad to someone else so freely and easily. At the end of the day, be kind to yourself, work on your self worth and remember, he was not your person. You deserve someone who can give you what you need.