Why am i still holding on to a relationship that feels empty?

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There is this man that i have been in relationship with for like four years now but we have been knowing each other for over a decade now. When we started dating everthing was good and i knew he loved me for a very long time. recently he had changed we will fight but rather than solving it he will just stay quite for months and then comes back as if nothing happened between us this has been going on for so long and i have been accepting him not because i love him but i feel nothing towards him. all the love and excitment i had for him had been gone but i dont know why i still hold on into a meaningless hope🄲
please help me because i dont know what to do

Last updated on:2026-06-10T12:29:11+05:30

Comments (2)

pattie90
pattie90 2 days ago

when he disappears for months and then comes back, do you actually feel happy to see him or do you just feel relieved that the silence is over

connection
connection 2 days ago

i stayed with someone long after the love was gone because i was holding onto who they used to be, not who they were. those months of silence after fights slowly drained everything out of me, and one day i realized i was grieving a relationship that hadn't even ended yet.