Why am i so lonely after the breakup?

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i miss him. it's so hard being this lonely again. all i could think of was the moments we had together. the laughters and the bond we had. he was my best friend. i would tell him everything going on about my life. my family is dysfunctional so i have no one to run to, only him. but when i ended things with him, it's so so hard to adjust 😭 i felt like i lost everything. i am a loser 😭 i miss the comfort he gives me.

but, at the same time, at the back of my mind, i can still remember all the betrayal. the trauma, all the pain he left. now, i am not only broken, but i am full of insecurities. i am paranoid. trying to compare myself to other girls

Last updated on:2026-08-21T14:48:11+05:30

Comments (3)

ojiankido
ojiankido 3 days ago

the part that helped me was stopping myself from calling the loneliness proof that i made the wrong choice. i missed him because he was familiar and he was my best friend, but the betrayal and pain were real too.

loserona
loserona 3 days ago

when you think about him now, do you miss him as he really was, or mostly the safety and closeness you felt when things were good?

Updown01
Updown01 3 days ago

i know this kind of loneliness. i remember missing my ex like crazy because he was the person i told EVERYTHING to, even while knowing there were things that hurt me so deeply. you can miss the comfort and still know why you left