I feel tragic after the breakup, I still can't believe that the 4-year relationship in which we were engaged just fell apart and his love for me completely disappeared and he found happiness somewhere else. I can't live and function because he took up 100% of my time and life. It ended with trauma and a psychiatrist. I still stalk him, sometimes I write to him, but he's terribly cold. I love him and I don't know what to do next. How do you cope after something like this? I apologize in advance for any mistakes. I'm from Poland.
Last updated on:2026-08-25T15:14:11+05:30
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i was engaged too, and when it ended i lost my whole routine along with the person, so even getting through a normal day felt impossible for a while.
dear, I brokeup from a 3 years relationship and we were engaged. It was blindsided. I don’t really know the real reason. It was so painful.
btw, try journaling and sit with all the disappointments. give him time as well to see relationship in a bigger picture. Based on my experience, after a while I no longer want that person. So, I just give myself a grace to fix myself, my part and control what I can control
Honestly this is so tough to even read let alone comprehend. The fact you have made it 11 days is beyond impressive and shows how strong you are. I really do believe you can keep going I really do. It will be really tough for a long time and that’s the hard part. Don’t let yourself fall apart because of this. I love you stay strong you got this.