it will be 5months after the breakup during hers birthday should i stay quiet?🤔
Last updated on:2026-08-27T00:59:35+05:30
Should i reach out on her birthday after 5 months apart?
it will be 5months after the breakup during hers birthday should i stay quiet?🤔
Last updated on:2026-08-27T00:59:35+05:30
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i’d stay quiet if you’re secretly hoping her birthday gives you a reason to reconnect. i learned that a simple “happy birthday” can carry a LOT of feelings when you’re still attached.
yeaa im gonna stay quiet then
if she didn’t reach out during those five months, do you think you’d be okay getting no response after wishing her happy birthday?
noo
i spent way too much time wondering whether a birthday message would reopen the door or just reopen my own wound, and honestly, staying quiet was easier than i expected.
my advice is never send a happy birthday.it just opens the wound.
stay quiet. what do you expect to happen of you tell her happy birthday. trust me, you will regret it. either she will respond and say thanks, or won't respond at all. keep yuur peace of mind and stay silent.
just congratulate lightly simple as friends nothing more r
. DONT EXPECT ANYTHING FROM HER MORE THAN JUST THANKS
it’s you feel like you’re healed enough and it won’t open a can of worms per say, then i would do it. the worst that could happen is she doesn’t respond, then you have your answer. if she does respond it doesn’t have to be a whole big long conversation. just wish her happy birthday and see where it goes. if she asks how you’re doing, see how you feel. if you feel like you’re gonna start feeling a type of way, just say good and leave it at that.
my birthday was a week ago. my ex texted me happy birthday. I told him that it was so irrelevant and he should leave it at that. and no contact proceeded.