i feel just as bad as day 1 right now. i really thought one day he’d realize what he lost and come back. my heart cant move on no matter how desperately my head knows that it’s over.
it’s so embarrassing because we only dated for 4 months at separate colleges and yet i am so wrecked even after 4 months of being broken up. idk how i will ever get over this.
Last updated on:2026-08-30T10:47:11+05:30
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i remember waiting for my ex to realize what he'd lost, and that hope kept me stuck way longer than the breakup itself.
can i ask, do you miss him as he actually was, or are you still holding onto the version of the relationship you hoped it would become?
i thought i was finally okay, then suddenly feeling like i was back at day one. the length of the relationship never told me how much it would hurt
Extend grace to yourself 🫂❤️ we love differently and sometimes heal at different time intervals allow your self to go through what you feel it shall come to pass .
Please don’t be embarrassed by how deeply you’re hurting. There’s no timeline for healing, and having a hard day doesn’t mean you’re back at day one. Your heart just needs more time to catch up with what your head already knows. You will get through this, even if you can’t imagine it right now. 🤍