What should i do when my avoidant won't come back?

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no matter what I did , my avoidant isn't coming back ,
should I drop the hope and move on completely or keep Wait for them ,,?

Last updated on:2026-08-31T00:16:12+05:30

Comments (7)

Effect4
Effect4 2 mths ago

i didn’t need to kill every feeling overnight, i just stopped making choices around the possibility that my ex might return.

af2236
af2236 2 mths ago

waiting for an avoidant to come back had me putting my own life on pause. i kept finding reasons to hope, and honestly, that hurt more than the breakup some days

Tyradri
Tyradri 2 mths ago

i asked myself the same thing for months. do you actually want them back, or are you holding onto the hope that they’ll finally choose you?

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 2 mths ago

Drop the hope, but fully letting go takes time, no need to rush how you are feeling

BraveWave03
BraveWave03 2 mths ago

waiting is the worst thing you would do

Tara
Tara 2 mths ago

move on bro

SweetHeart609
SweetHeart609 2 mths ago

Move on..