so basically the last time we talked was August 27 we'll not really cus he was bothered but we kept on sending each other's snaps and I called him 3 times the day bfr yesterday n he didn't pick up but yesterday he sent me 3 snaps I haven't been on snap because I dont want him to see that I was online but I also have my friends on snap and I dont think im ready to block him I wont open the snaps even tho im curious but ye idk if I should open snap at all.
Last updated on:2026-09-05T20:48:04+05:30
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i'd open snap for your friends if you want to, but i wouldn't open his snaps yet.
I accidentally opened snap yesterday but I didn't opened his snaps even tho I was curious but ive been keeping myself busy I dont checked my notifications as much as I used to but I still do but its still doesn't mean ill respond or text if he did.
I feel like im good without snap because Ion really have the energy to text ppl n stuff so its no biggie
i feel like you're caught between wanting your normal life back and still wanting him to notice you. if you opened snap and saw he was online, do you think you'd end up checking his profile or waiting for another snap?
I did check his location when I accidentally opened snap n he was online 3hours bfr that but im the only one he texts on snap so sometimes I feel like he's checking if I was online to see if he was online idk but yeah I feel like keeping myself busy has helped me alot lately but when im not its chaos cus I miss him alot not as my ex but as a person cus we were friends n when we broke up I blocked him everywhere but he texted on another app to ask me to unblock him so I did but I was being mean n cold cus I was hurt for example if he asked me if I was okay I js say ye n not ask him back or js say gm instead or good morning n he was like you cant spell the full sentence I was like you understood didn't you n yeah I feel like I messed it up n ever since he stopped trying
i used to avoid opening apps just so my ex wouldn't know i was online, then spend the whole day wondering what he had sent me. that curiosity can make you feel trapped between checking and hiding.
I feel like im making peace with it cus ion really like texting people its draining im more of a loner n ion mind it cus ppl r draining he was the only one I tried for
If I were you, I’d leave it as is and delete the whole app. I had a similar situation—I didn't reply for two days, completely deleted Snapchat, and only reinstalled it after those two days to see that he had messaged me. But if you're curious, open it and just don't reply.
I wont open it cus ion want him to think im still interested which I kinda am but I miss him more as a person then my ex or anything n i accidentally open snap today n I checked his location but I didn't open his snaps