we started dating 2 years ago. i was her first relationship, first everything. she made me wanna be better everyday but with time, we started arguing. i hurt her by my words, she hurt me too, but i hurt her more. with time, i could feel her spark getting dimmer and dimmer. i tried to make everything right but all the pressure of saving the relationship as well as my family issues made everything worse. i know i was a good guy most of the times, but when i lost my mind, i said things soo hurtful even i would leave myself for it. but she stayed. she forgived me. over and over again. but the same problem kept occurring. my anger. i tried to calm myself down, tried to change, but i just couldn’t. and i made everything worse. and on 25th august. it finally happened. we both got into a very big argument and i said things i wish i never should have. she did too. but mine outweighs hers. we both talk now for like 10 mins a day on text but it feels like im talking to a stranger. i wanna fix everything. but i dont know how to. if someone has been through this situation please help me cause i want her to be the one. i cant deal with all this guilt and regret. i love her.
Last updated on:2026-09-06T23:18:56+05:30
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you say you both still text for 10 minutes a day, does she seem like she wants to rebuild something too, or does it feel like she's slowly letting go?
it feels like shes slowly letting go. im always the one who keeps trying to fix things
i know that guilt is eating you alive, but i learned that wanting her back can't be the only reason you change. i had to work on my anger because i hated who i became when i lost control, even if my relationship never came back.
i understand
i hurt someone i loved with my anger too, then spent months drowning in guilt because apologies couldn't erase what i'd said. watching someone who once felt so close turn cold and distant really hurts.
yeah it really does
he did same to me but we never broke up i just left him ,as a woman take my advice text her sweetly nd apologise cz that what iam waiting frm him , despite he hurt him i never left but when we argue nd he was mean i just told him don't text me again Nd it been 32 day since then
thanks for the advice. if you dont mind, can you please help me w this bcs i think you’re experienced this
@me3zaan yes ofc i can it's like same feeling me and ur ex cz my ex did the same as u tell me what do u want to know i will tell u nd inchallah u will back with her nd be more loving to each other
Please get help for your anger. You owe it to yourself and the people around you. We all make mistakes but it's how you learn and grow from them that counts.
thankyou for the advice. much love