Is writing one last letter a good idea?

so I wanted to write him one last letter even tho we've been in no contact i still wanted to do it and bring it to his house n hug him one last time at least I think this would help me on my healing journey.
I dont know

Last updated on:2026-09-07T09:26:15+05:30

Comments (10)

SparkyBlu340
SparkyBlu340 2 wks ago

Don't do that first of all remember why you're in that state like is it your fault or theirs

CozyCloud485
CozyCloud485 2 wks ago

don’t do it 😭 or how did you guys break up? was it mutual?

Cultural1
Cultural1 2 wks ago

i’d write the letter, but keep it with you for now. i wrote mine and said everything i never got to say, and somehow that helped more than sending it ever could.

Lumosnight
Lumosnight 2 wks ago

i feel how badly you want that last hug. do you think you want to say goodbye to him, or are you hoping that seeing him might change something between you?

HappyTrail914
HappyTrail914 2 wks ago

idk really maybe both but im not expecting anything really

xoxos3
xoxos3 2 wks ago

i've been there, writing that “one last letter” and secretly hoping it would give me the goodbye i never got. i wanted that last hug so badly too, but seeing him again ended up reopening everything i was trying so hard to close. 💔

KindWishes384
KindWishes384 2 wks ago

hmm … sometimes seeing them retriggers every emotion & starting over the no contact. maybe, send the letter ? but if it will help you find peace then best of luck ♥️

HappyTrail914
HappyTrail914 2 wks ago

I feel like once I've seen someone true faces I cant unsee it I wanna make sure if I see him i wont feel anything
I wanna know if I still have feelings for him or if ive moved on

jana
jana 2 wks ago

I just did it

HappyTrail914
HappyTrail914 2 wks ago

what happened?