i was treated very bad by my ex after the breakup , i made efforts to talk with her back ,tried my best to get her back , the breakup was due to small misunderstanding, but she's not ready to communicate, I'm blocked everywhere, i just see her in my class , should I approach her. ? but she doesn't wanna listen ,
Last updated on:2026-09-07T00:50:08+05:30
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i know you feel like the misunderstanding needs to be cleared up, but if she's not willing to listen right now, what do you think approaching her would give you that you haven't already tried to get?
that's right , maybe i should stop chasing and surelyy try to move on , cus every beautiful effort I made was rejected by her very coldlyy , maybe we're not destined together
Bro, need you to hear this: Give. Her. Space. She's processing things too, there could be a chance that what felt minor to you was actually major for her. This isn't to blame you, but to give you perspective. If/When she's ready to talk, than talk. But for now, hit that space bar.
yesssss , that's really right , i think i should focus on myself rather than sitting and overthinking
@zekehealss There you go! Do something nice for yourself today!
i'd leave her alone for now. i learned the hard way that when someone has made it clear they don't want contact, chasing them usually pushes them further away and keeps you stuck in the same loop.
i kept trying to explain myself after my breakup because i thought one good conversation could fix everything, but every attempt just made me feel more rejected. being blocked while still seeing her in class must hurt like hell.
its like looking at a race you couldve won , like a mistake that shouldn't have been made , its like the treasure I've lost
space and time, if anything will ever help us, it's space and time