when he broke up with me he said we could still be friends and he was there whenever I needed if I was doing really bad but he didn't want to talk like nothing happened and also I wanna text him when I'm sad but I know it will be worst for me because what do I tell him? I'm really sad and it is because of you?
I really want to text him but I also fear he would think that I'm stupid for doing it.
I know I wanna text him expecting a kind reaction that I won't receive that's why I'm stopping my self from doing it but I don't know how much longer I can hold out
I don't need only my lover I need my best friend...
Last updated on:2026-09-09T01:56:05+05:30
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i know you miss him as your best friend too. if you texted him right now, what are you secretly hoping he would say back?
I actually just texted him and he replied without being dry and I'm glad I did it, I asked how was his first day of class and he even asked about mine
after my breakup, i kept wanting to text my ex whenever i felt low because i missed having my best friend there, and every time i reached for my phone i had to remind myself that he couldn't comfort the wound he was part of.
like the saying goes - you cant heal from the same place that hurt you.
hi wanda! this resonates with me so deeply. I get the desire so much. you’re not alone. you’re seeking some sort of connection and validation and that’s sooo human and natural. I encourage you to take it moment by moment and really remember why it’s in your ultimate best interest not to reach out. sending you so much love.
I actually just texted him and it went really well, I'm glad I did it. it was a short casual conversation about the first day of class