how do yoy forget a avoidant attachment ex? something that connects through, and i had developed trauma bond which is very hard to fight
Last updated on:2026-09-15T06:03:12+05:30
how do yoy forget a avoidant attachment ex? something that connects through, and i had developed trauma bond which is very hard to fight
Last updated on:2026-09-15T06:03:12+05:30
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i still wonder about this for you, do you miss your ex as they really were, or do you miss the connection you kept hoping they would finally give you?
i miss the comfort, the security and emotional stability and i don't think i miss him as he is
i stopped trying to forget my ex and started treating the silence like part of healing. every time i wanted to check on them or reach out, i reminded myself how much that cycle had already hurt me.
i’ve been there with an avoidant ex, and that push-pull feeling got so intense that i honestly thought i was addicted to the person. the trauma bond made every little bit of distance feel unbearable.
I list all things them can't do and red flag hope u can open u eye heart I'm already heal move on from my avoidant dissmive ex gf
thank youuu