have you had this feeling that you were the only one fighting for your relationship? like it was draining your energy and life. and he was aware of it, on our last convo he was aware of my sacrifices yet he still choose to pick his friends over me? what is he, a hypocrite or just someone without emotional intelligence?
do you think after the euphoria of having his friend around and missing my presence will he understand my value? or should i stop keep on hoping? we were 2yrs together still and it's hard to not be full of what ifs if you're specifically an overthinker and a virgo
Last updated on:2026-09-15T19:52:55+05:30
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you think you’re hoping he’ll come back because you still want him, or because you need him to finally realize how much you sacrificed?
i just needed him to understand im hurting because of him
i’d stop measuring your worth by whether he misses you after the excitement with his friends fades.
i’ve had that feeling of fighting for two people while the other person just stood there and watched me get exhausted. i kept hoping they’d finally notice everything i was giving, and that waiting hurt almost as much as the breakup.
I feel you, I was the one doing the effort of keeping the communication, always updating but all she says is that she is busy. it's unfair because no matter how busy I am I have time to check on her or be available for her. then one heated argument she said to me to get out of her life, then the next day she blocked me and deleted her messages to me. I'm coping and fighting the pain that she caused.
It depends on how long you've been overgiving. He could be just putting on a front in front of his friends. Men find value in busy women. You should stop giving to him, let him miss you. Have some fun