my head hurts thinking about him, even though not all day. it's just that i can't help my mind overthink and even in my dreams i create fake scenarios like he have someone new now. am i fine? will i be okay?
Last updated on:2026-09-20T05:55:11+05:30
my head hurts thinking about him, even though not all day. it's just that i can't help my mind overthink and even in my dreams i create fake scenarios like he have someone new now. am i fine? will i be okay?
Last updated on:2026-09-20T05:55:11+05:30
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i remember asking myself the same thing, “am i ever going to be okay?” when you imagine him with someone new, does it hurt more because you miss him, or because you’re scared he’s moving on without you?
i had to stop treating every thought about my ex like something i needed to solve.
your brain keeps making up scenes you never even asked to see. i used to wake up from dreams about my ex and feel awful for hours, like my own head was working against me.
will you accept if he comes back?
that is not an option in my case. I asked him last time I saw him “you won’t text or call or reach out will you?”
he replied “no I won’t.” and I believe him. So I walked away and didn’t look back. I’ve made a vow to myself not to reach out and go knocking on the door of the man that closed it.
You can do it ladyyyy!!!!
yes you will I promise!!!!!
me too! eventually this will go away and you will start to feel better. I was in my relationship on and off for 2 years. always him pulling away or breaking up.