we broke up 3 months ago it has been like 24 days since last talked I'm like I still want him I still love him but sometimes I think about another person like in our school or something when I think like that I feel like I'm cheating him even though we broke up normally I was doing good like try not to miss him but like past week I missed so bad I wanted to call him but I couldn't idk how I will let go I'm trying but idk
Last updated on:2026-09-20T08:52:11+05:30
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i had to remind myself that missing him and noticing someone else can exist at the same time. i stopped treating every thought about another person like i had done something wrong, and it made letting go feel a little less impossible.
i keep thinking about the part where you suddenly started missing him so badly again, do you think you miss him as he is now, or do you miss the comfort of having him in your life?
i’ve been there, and that weird guilt after a breakup messed with me too. i remember feeling like even noticing someone else meant i was betraying my ex, even though we weren’t together anymore.
like i really get you, i also feel like i am cheating him when i talk to other guys or something even though we broke up more than a month ago but i just need to accept that we are not a thing anymore so that’s what you need to do too, like yall broke up, if you guys are not getting back together try to move on, let yourself fell, get hobbies, spend time with your friends, distract yourself and I promise it will eventually get better, it takes time, and you just have to be patient🫶
girlll I get it even tho mine broke up with me on the 1st Septmber 🥲 and it’s okay to miss him and still love him but try not to let him have power over u that u feel like ur cheating on him if you think about another person. and I know it hurts so much even I want to text and call him I did that a lot but I realised if they wanted to talk to us they would 🥲🥲
if he wouldn't blocked me I would write