Why i finally let go and started healing

My ex has a rebound girl. at first that really really fucked me up, not even a full 2 months we've been apart and he's already posting pictures of himself arms around another girl in her bed.

but then I realised, he's rebounding and it won't last, and frankly I don't care anymore.

i deleted every last photo I had of him from my camera roll, went on Facebook, the only place he hadn't blocked me and sent a message "you missed one, you should remove your engagement status from here and also maybe get rid of your insta highlight that's dedicated to me, fuck you" and then I blocked him.

he isn't controlling me anymore, I fear I will still cry over him again in the future but even my dreams are shutting him out.

I went on a date, and the difference between my ex's rebound and me going out is I actually spent time grieving. i didn't go out every night since the break up drinking and partying.

I grieved, I felt the break up, I looked inwars at what I need to fix, and now I'm also choosing not to blame myself for the whole relationship breakdown.

I am planning to, and already have started to, put in the work to improve myself, and plan to take things incredibly slow with anyone I see interest in.

but yea, feeling pretty proud of myself, feeling happier, got lots planned and don't feel so world ending anymore.

Last updated on:2026-10-13T00:53:51+05:30