So, the guy told me that one day, when he was hanging out with Ash, Ash’s cousin showed up. He didn’t realize at first that it was Ash’s cousin—it was the first time he’d met her in person—but soon after, Ash mentioned who she was. He insisted that nothing happened; if you know Ash well, you’ll know he’s not like that. He said he didn’t do anything—they just had a few drinks together, and then he went home. Then we talked about the two of you and the situation with Wendall. He says you should just give him a chance, because he’s still dealing with the drama surrounding Wendall—like having to go back home and all that. But you don’t need to worry; he has plans for the two of you for the future. You just need to be a little patient, as he’s still stressed about the Wendall situation—he says it’s all just a bit too much. He basically asked for some space to sort out all that mess, but don’t worry—he’ll come back to you once everything is figured out. I told him, "No, I understand," because I really don’t want to get caught up in your problems. After that, we went back to talking about our own stuff. He just needs some time and wants you to be patient with him—that’s all. So, yeah, that’s it.
He told my cousin this
Last updated on:2026-10-26T03:43:11+05:30
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the hard way that someone can have real problems and still leave you waiting indefinitely. i’d give him room to sort things out, but i wouldn’t put my own life on hold for a promise.
when you heard that he has plans for your future but needs space right now, did you feel reassured, or did it leave you even more confused about where you stand with him?
leave me more confused 😕
i've been in that spot where someone keeps promising a future together while asking for more time, and you end up clinging to every little bit of hope. it’s exhausting when you care about someone and still have no idea where you stand.