I were in relationship with this girl for almost 4 years it was long distance (i planned to meet her but whenever I planned things plans didn't worked out ) she left me on 5 October we had a plan to meet in December but she randomly dropped a text that she's not getting boyfriend kinda feelings from me she said we can be just friends but I guess im not for that shit so i just simply walked away, but still miss that girl who made me feel how you feel when someone loves you with whole heart and now same person made me feel like i don't deserve love , i used to send her letter, gifts and what not but I guess even if you bring World to them but if the other person can't love you then nothing matters , i really don't will i able to love someone else like i did to that person...
Last updated on:2026-10-25T23:11:24+05:30
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you DO deserve love. God loves you. Your heart matters and I'm sorry that you are hurting. Be gentle with yourself. You deserve someone to choose you and I just prayed to God that someone comes along and chooses you. Take it easy and rest.
i went through this same fear after my breakup, wondering how i'd ever love someone that deeply again.
when she said she wasn't getting boyfriend feelings from you, did she ever explain what she felt was missing, especially after all those years of loving her and planning to finally meet?
I asked many times that what's missing am i not good looking then I'll work on it if I'm not stable in my life I'll work on my career but she just you're good in your own way you're nice guy but i just can't feel any love for you i tried but I can't
(I thought at the end she will give me honest feedback but at the end all i got is nice guy tag:)