Most of the time.. i don't know about others but I feel it's me who was the reason..if she moved on means I was not enough to hold her.. i didn't put all the efforts which is the reason she could moved on.. but I can't.. coz it's guilt of i should have done this.. guilt of not fighting.. guilt of now trying again and again.. don't know but not able to find solution of such thought . not able to replace her .. not able to think life beyond her coz she was the peace of life and now she is gone.. life lost the balance...hoping that she will feel again and reach out to me...but this hope sometime give more pain when I see her moving on without me...
Last updated on:2025-08-14T23:24:03+05:30
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you holding on to every what if while she’s already building something new.
i felt that way too. like i didn’t do enough. it’s a rough place to sit in.
i remember thinking if i had just called one more time or said the right thing she wouldn’t have left. it eats you alive.
Nope! It means that God knew y'all weren't right for each other and he has bigger plans for you.
why didn't you try ? or did you try but she didn't meet you halfway?
I know the reason for breakup than was me.. so tried again but till than she has moved on..
I know this feeling and I question every day if I was enough and what I could have done to change it. One thing that has massively helped me was actually writing down the time line of my relationship listing all the happens that lead to ultimate letting go and what i realized was that alot of it was out of my control and it that he chose to do the things he did irregardless of how he knew it made me feel. It really puts things into perspective and even the things I could have changed that is something I am looking at now to work on slowly so it doesnt affect someone else in the future. You got this and you are worthy for the right one, there will be zero questioning when it happens someday ❤️
I am gona do the timeline thing.. still major reason I know .. still many things started drifting apart before actually we broke up.. I don't want anything a soft now.. just don't want to live life in this pain and longing..all the best to you too..