I don't know why, but whenever people say.. there is something bigger written for you.. something more bigger is waiting for you.. god has better plans for you.. my perspective goes in this way.. is that why God remove me from her life.. coz god has better plans for her.... God wants to give her more bigger that's why i was taken out from her.. and when you come to know the other person is moved on.. she is happy.. i really doubt myself .. do I really wrong one for her... that's the worst feeling you have for yourself....
Last updated on:2025-08-19T07:21:10+05:30
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you’re measuring her happiness against your worth. like if she’s smiling now it must mean you weren’t good enough. i’ve done that too, it always turned into me blaming myself for things that weren’t mine
when you are in pain and other person is smilling it feels you are the one who holds them back.. you need them to be happy not they need you .
need to stop comparing.
i get what you mean. i used to twist it too, like maybe i was the one holding him back. but it wasn’t about me being wrong, it was just where his choices went. that doubt eats you, i know.
yes.. working on it..
i used to hate that line about god having better plans. felt like people were just saying my pain was worth nothing. she moved on so fast it made me feel like trash she threw out.
stay strong.. that's what I am trying to do .
People come in to your life for a season, a reason, or a lifetime.
10 12 years of relation doesn't feel like season or lesson it feels complete life .
man this hit home for me when I read this. I was about to write my whole lil spill. n then I seen the first 2 sentences. I used to and still sometimes wonder the same stuff. like was I not that great. n u have better for them. I've come to really belive that some people God just put there for a lesson to bring something out of us and vise versa. doesnt mean nothings wrong with you. I just believe that's not who he had for you. n He does has better. he never has taken nothing from me and what I ended up getting was better. lost a studio apartment cause I went to jail. got out got a whole house. went to jail again. got a 1 bedroom. guess humility is in there somewhere. guess I'm just tryna say don't doubt YOU becaise God removed them and if they are happy then let them be. I'm learning that with my ex. I prayed God bless them qith someone who can b for them communicate love then the way I couldn't. they been with numerous ppl since I've been just single. tryna piece things together. your right where ur supposed to be. I pray your clarity,understanding,peace,overall I pray your healing and discovering of YOU. THAT PERSON IS OUT THERE FOR YOU!