I've been talking to this person for a bit and the starting of talking I kept saying sry for talking to them and they said it's fine but l keep saying u sure like I'm being a burden but they saying l wasn't the person is older than me and l feel like I've found the one but I'm waiting to see first tho cus I'm not jumping to a relationship this soon l told them that l wanna get to know them better and l did told them about my crazy ex gf l had they said that it wasn't my fault for what she did to me l haven't felt those words before that it wasn't my fault on something that happened a bit ago and l felt good about myself cus l believed them that it's not my fault for something l truly wanna be with someone this bad but it's only been a few days since I started talking with them and we talk a bit and I'm really glad l sent them at text first cus if l didn't l wouldn't have this bit of a connection to them this soon but I'm gonna heal first before jumping into a relationship with anyone cus it's only been a few days since my last relationship happened and I'm scared to be let down again or something bad to go wrong with anyone but l wanna make things work for the better then the worst
Last updated on:2025-08-19T00:41:37+05:30
Comments (6)
you’re pacing yourself, noticing the good in a tiny connection while still holding space for your own healing, that’s all real and valid
yea
it sounds like you’re being gentle with yourself, letting yourself feel seen by her, and that little “it’s not your fault” meant more than anyone probably knows
it does
i feel that, always apologizing for existing, thinking you’re too much for someone, but them saying it’s fine and you still doubting it just eats at you
yea it does