He just broke up with me but begged me to be there the next day. He said he still loves me and it's not what he wanted, but he wanted ME to go. I told him if he wants to break up, he should break up because I do love him with everything I have. He said he couldn't give me the things I need when he already gave me the exact things I need. I seriously don't know what to do. He said I'm very important to him and stuff like that but he just broke up with me like I'm nothing only to tell me minutes later he loves me. I'm so confused and everything is soo messed up. I told him not to contact me again and that I will ghost him if he does. But damn, I do love him and I do see him and his struggles.
Maybe I do have a wrong mindset about relationships because in my opinion
If you love someone, you NEVER give up on this person.
Last updated on:2026-04-22T02:51:12+05:30
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are you still in contact with him right now, or has it gone quiet after you told him not to reach out
I feel emberassed to say it, but we're still in contact. He said a hard cut would be unhealthy. But tbh, it's unhealthy for me to stay with him. I need to choose myself I just don't know how to choose myself...
someone ending things and still pulling me back in the next day like nothing happened. it left me feeling like i was always reacting, never actually safe in the relationship
It just makes you go crazy fr. Hope you're okay
yoooooh... You will soon realise that you are abandoning one person who needs your love the most... One person that stays... YOU. He chose himself. You chose you.
But HOW do I choose myself? I know I really need to choose myself but I just really don't know how. It makes me so angry to even let this happen to me...
@NitroPulse213 does an inconsistent love... satisfy you? What do you think you need right now... him aside? What are other ways that you can satisfy that need if they were not in your life? How does loving you look like? when you picture a scenario where you are loved cherished,chosen... what comes to mind? Once youve pictured that do you think and believe you deserve that? Do you want that? Then now are they offering that? If not is there a way you can feel your cup until the right person comes and loves you wholly?
@Kwisa254 Damn you just kinda opened my eyes for now... I do deserve the love I want... Thank you very much.
this feels really chaotic to sit inside. being told “i love you” and “we’re done” in the same breath messes with your head in a deep way
It does mess with my head and I'm really angry at myself to let this happen. It's so unfair
Don't accept him.He will come back worse and play with you like a doll,I am going through this and It's not ok. . .
So sorry you have to go through this. I hope you're okay