His friend who got out a 4 year relationship had become single in the summer and got a new girlfriend immediately after I did not like her she was bad news they picked my ex up one night and left him on the side of the road and I had to go get him at 3am so yes I had a problem with him after he did that he was telling people I was crazy and then called that girl crazy after he dumped her. I feel like me getting broken up with was all just a part of that because the friend didn’t like me anymore. he showed up when I made my ex break up with me to my face and every time I’ve tried to talk to my ex since then his friend is either on the phone call or with him influencing all his thoughts and feeling, now they are just hooking up with random girls and at the bar drinking or at the casino. Will I ever get the conversation I deserve and the chance i deserve?
Last updated on:2026-04-26T13:50:57+05:30
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you feel like he’s even capable of showing up alone and speaking for himself right now, or is he too wrapped up in that friend’s influence?
too wrapped up in what his friends have to say to give me a second thought
i had to accept i wasn’t going to get the conversation i deserved. it hurt like hell, but waiting for it kept me stuck, so i had to give myself that closure instead
feels messy in a way i know too well. my ex had a friend like that too, always in his ear, and suddenly i went from being his person to “the problem” overnight. it messes with your head so bad
sometimes wanting closure from the person who hurt you so is not actually what your heart needs. i am sorry you're going thru this. my ex seemed to be influenced by others as well when making his decisions so i do kind of understand. keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know you're not alone friend ❤️