I know what he did to me I know I didn’t deserve to be treated like crap after I got my heart broken I know he told me he’s already been with different girl I know now all he wants to do is hurt me but how come I still miss him, I still want him in my life howcome I still have it in the back of my mind that all of this is just a joke and it’s not real. I just want to go back to have our future together like we planned. but it’s been a month if he loved me he couldn’t be so cruel to me when all I needed was him and the truth. how come the first couple weeks he regretted it and now he doesn’t he told me he’s gotten better since I’ve been out of his life but I haven’t it’s only been a day of no contact and I feel like I’m going crazy even though I got treated like crap i got to talk to him why is this so hard
Last updated on:2026-04-26T05:18:03+05:30
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do you think you miss HIM or the version of him you thought you had and the future you built in your head?
honestly that first stretch of no contact messed me up, i felt like i was going crazy too.
i knew my ex was hurting me too and still couldn’t let go. my brain knew the truth but my heart kept replaying the good parts like they were the REAL story
hey it's going to be okkay, it's only a day and i know it's hard, it's really hard and you don't need to explain it. it's the pain and agony in the heart. But let me tell you one thing, almost everybody goes through this and they come out stronger ,mature and wiser than before, and trust me you will too. you just have to trust the process of grief...
and he treated you like crap , you deserve better. it's the neuro wiring in your brain that even though you know the person mistreated you and in long term he wouldn't be good for you it's just the brain that craves the dopamine hits, it's going to be okay , drink water rest, seriously rest, if you want to sleep, sleep, do whatever that gives you comfort, and its okkay you're going to be okay
Yes it normal to miss a ex
feel it.one day you gonna be ok.
Yes.It's normal to miss him since it's a fresh breakup.