I saw pic of him today, and it didnt hurt. I moved on and I am so happy I cant describe it. Finally I am free and idc if I see him, I wil just look away or myb smile at him but not in a way that i want him, but in a way I am so happy to see he is doing well.
Last updated on:2026-04-27T00:26:04+05:30
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this is fully closure for you now, or does a small part of you still get pulled back sometimes?
not rly i havent even tought ab him in the past few days
that feeling right there, hold onto it. i stopped checking, stopped replaying things, and just let myself enjoy the peace when it came, it slowly became my new normal
How long did it take to get over him I really can't wait for that feeling to stop thinking about him that hope I still have I'm on day 15 of NC...i will never contact him will never bother him again. I just wanna let go.
i removed him in august 2025 dint contact him since and i almost moved on in January but then he said to my friend to say hi to me and smiled to me when u saw him so that broke me and i started to like him again, but now in april i didnt send him any texts told my friends to not talk ab him. I finally saw that i was stupid to go back so many times and i for once choose myself and its the best thing you can do. And if you do what you said tjat you will not contact him i think it will take you much less than it took me bc at first i didnt want to accept it but now i put myself first not him. You will move on quick if you rly dont contact him or tell firends ti tell him sm. AND never look for him anywhere just act when you saw him that you didnt, that helped me. And if you have any questions or just wanna talk i am always here, you can always update me on how NC is going.
the first time i saw my ex and felt nothing, it honestly shocked me. after all that pain, just… quiet. i felt free in a way i didn’t think was possible
i am soooo happy for youu
that’s incredible!!!