Hi everyone I don’t know and why I’m here to tell you guys my story but here am. As a guy with a walking disability who just want to feel the true love and care of someone. But it hard why it have to be hard for me to find someone. Let me say this yes I did get into two relationships I’m greatful for it too. As far as I know two my relationships always end the same path. My first relationship was short only last 4 months and yes I’m happy she pick me my first girlfriend my first relationship but our break up was so fast. She break up with me for some reason she say she love me and all but things have been very hard for her so she end it. Right after we break up I found out she was dated already that made me sad but not that upset because the relationship was short so it didn’t feel that much. My second relationship was great we managed to last almost a year this month is our anniversary but yeah. Our break up was very similar to my 1 relationship she broke up with me because she was struggling things this and this which I understand and respect her decision. After a week new guy she was on her talking stage already it was so fast it made me think a lot of stuff. During our relationship she told me even my friend say so too they told me all her past relationship was so toxic she was dated the guy for 3 years it made her almost end up suicide. During are talking stage she even told me she wish was a loyalty and trustful guy. So we end up dated after our talking stage durning our dated she even say she like how I treated her loyalty etc she was so happy I made her the best relationship she ever asked for. We did have some arguments but we always end up talking it through which what made her so happy about it too she always say communication is key. Time have pass she break up with me a month ago. The day she break up with me she say she truly love me I made her the best relationship she ever have I made her feel loved and the next girl will be very lucky to have me. After our break up I also found out she was on her talking stage with a different guy. Why they move on so fast why it have to be me who fixed them and made them happy then left me with questions and no answer. Is I’m just a place for them to fix themselves how come I’m so easy to replace and remove. I just want answers please tell me. Is it because I was too loyalty too honest too nice too loved. Why stay 3 years of toxic relationship but left a loved relationship only 1 years. I understand it because of my disability they can’t accept that of course they can’t why love a disability guy when you have more then him right. It just hurt guys I can’t explain my feelings but hope you guys understand me🥹 Thank you for reading anything you don’t understand feel free to comment and ask questions.
Last updated on:2026-05-04T18:37:03+05:30
Comments (4)
honestly, i had to stop telling myself i was “too much” or “too nice.” some people just aren’t ready for steady love, they take it, feel better, then run back to what feels familiar to them.
do you really believe it’s your disability, or is that the pain trying to find a reason for something that just doesn’t make sense
i’ve been the one who gave everything, treated her right, helped her heal, and then watched her leave and move on like it was nothing. it makes you question your whole worth for a while 🥹
I understand and I'm in the same situation but the problem is not you , it's their .
I think that she's never ready for something serious .
But it's not about your values it's her behavior .
She's not mature enough for something serious and now take a break for a moment without relationship and try to heal even if it's not easy .
Take a break and think about it , maybe she love you but not in the same way .
If she's made for you , she will come back but don't wait for that for the moment , you're someone with a good heart and she just made you doubt about your values.
That's not cool but I hope you'll be okay .
Never text her , she will do that if she really want .