I have been letting go of her slowly and trying to do better I have been bettering myself I have been working out. But I still only think of her everyone keeps telling me she will come back but I am scared if she doesn't I also know I need to let go but I dont want to I still feel the love in my chest I want to give her but I know I cant. we are on no contact because of our job. but all I can think of is her and yes its kinda making me sadder. everyone is telling me give her space and she will come back but I also read the horoscopes and she's a pisces and it says she wont make the first move. what can do i do?
Last updated on:2026-05-18T05:59:05+05:30
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did she ever actually say she wanted another chance someday, or is most of that hope coming from friends and the horoscope stuff?
honestly I had a weak moment I miss her and love her greatly but I can't continue to be scared of the path and am slowly walking forward. but everyone who has any knowledge of us between our friends coworkers and even her father said she will resurface again soon. and reach out to me but I can't be the broken man I was if she were to reach out I need to be a better version of who she met that learned from the mistakes I made not only for her but for me. like I said I had a moment of weakness like most people when you remember the person who made you feel whole and remember the twinkle they had in their eyes every time you looked in them
being stuck in that exact place, trying to “improve myself” while secretly hoping every workout and every day of no contact would somehow bring her back. the hardest part was realizing i was healing with one hand and holding on with the other
bro thank you for showing a little sympathy and understanding I do apologize for a weak moment and wanted help with my thoughts because I was scared even scared of the future but I'm fine now because I can't stop the movement
stop obsessing about someone who dont care.U will only waste yourl time.even if u make a first and ask her again, answer urself this question what if says no.Currently u r half way healing urself .asking her out will throw u in abyss.I had called my ex too.He shrugged me off , and in the end i was so angry that why i did call him anyway.So keep ur head high and move on
We can’t hold on to them. Loving them means giving them the freedom to choose. They don’t get the power over us. Feel your feelings and acknowledge them. And try to find something to distract yourself. You got this.