Why can't i find closure after being used?

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I'm really hurt I feel like he used me my heart wants a revenge after trusting him so much with my heart.i block and unblock him i post hurtful statuses to hurt him on purpose I don't know what to do

Last updated on:2026-05-29T08:32:56+05:30

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SweetNinja924
SweetNinja924 21 hrs ago

no no revenge never works. Don't drop to his level. Block him. make no contact. Act like you could care less. He thrives on people's pain. be glad he's gone and feel sorry for his next victim. I know you want to scream and do all kind of things and that's ok just don't act on your feelings. you know your a better person than he will ever be and he never deserved your love. Think about this being in love is like being addicted to drugs, Time and patience will make you whole again. Your group friend 🧡

morphous
morphous 2 days ago

honestly the hurtful statuses never made me feel better for long

End1707
End1707 2 days ago

i used to block and unblock my ex like ten times a day because part of me wanted him gone and the other part wanted him to finally care. that revenge feeling usually came from how HUMILIATED and disposable i felt after trusting him so deeply

nomondem
nomondem 2 days ago

I think the things you are posting indirectly on your status for him to see you should say to him directly . It won't change anything , I learnt the heard way they said " don't say anything , silence is the best " I almost exploded because I thought that's best . Write the paragraphs , send the voice notes and then try to navigate everything after . Blocking won't help also because you unblock at the end of the day .

WildChill576
WildChill576 2 days ago

i alsoe feel the same he used me and he asole didint give a proper reason for breakup randomly left me idk man
after the first month of break I asked him to see where he is he said I will try but i need time idk man what will happen when he will be back

WildChill576
WildChill576 2 days ago

same I feel he used me

curlyhairUNi
curlyhairUNi 2 days ago

when you picture revenge, do you actually want him to suffer or do you just want him to finally understand how badly he hurt you?

ItsNotEasy
ItsNotEasy 2 days ago

this here is probably what most feel.

faithful
faithful 2 days ago

to see how badly he hurt me