Is this a good sign after the breakup?

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we both applied to a job together and today the results are out. he got selected, i didn’t. i called him and he didn’t pick up so i left a text saying that he did great and wishing him luck for future. then i blocked him again. after 2-3 hours his younger brother forwarded me a message of him where he thanked me and told me not to be upset about the result and wished me for my future. are we really ending or is there is a chance?

Last updated on:2026-05-22T20:51:12+05:30

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Athlete861
Athlete861 2 days ago

i’ve been in that weird in-between too where the love is still there but the timing, silence, pride, all of it gets in the way. him replying through his younger brother feels emotional, people who feel nothing usually don’t bother sending careful messages back.

musiclove
musiclove 3 days ago

i’d be lying if i said there’s zero chance, but honestly i learned the hardest part is not confusing kindness with clarity. my ex used to leave little doors open too and i stayed stuck there for months waiting for a bigger sign that never came.

noor
noor 3 days ago

wow it make sense, he is a kind person i have to say.

Lostme
Lostme 3 days ago

i keep wondering, when you blocked him again after texting him, was it because you wanted closure or because you hoped he’d still find a way back to you somehow?

noor
noor 3 days ago

2nd one. now the thing is we had a lot of fight in the past few months. he did some mistakes, i have many faults too. but later we still decided to give us a chance. but we were having constant fight and he suggested break up. i said ok. and also we have some important events in our life in few days so ig he wants some peace of mind.( reason i think he suggested break up) that’s why i wanted him to approach as he suggested it

SweetNinja924
SweetNinja924 3 days ago

ask him. why stay in pain waiting for an answer. if he ghosts, you'll have you answer.

noor
noor 3 days ago

GIRL I MIGHT ACTUALLY

HappyHour406
HappyHour406 3 days ago

sorry to break it to ya but it doesn’t seem like there’s a chance

noor
noor 3 days ago

uk in the past it happened once. we had intense fight and we were in no contact for 12 days. but at that point, he indirectly in many ways tried to fix it. but this time it feels calm, no signs no desperation to talk to me. that’s why I’m confused. but also there’s this 12 days thing and this time its still day 5 so i was still hoping