I decided to break no contact and send a message and ask her to be able to sit down and talk. she responded. and it hurt "we can do tomorrow. but it can’t be at my house or anything since (censored new bf name) moved in with me. i do want you to understand that there’s nothing you can say for me to come back and i’m only doing this for closure for you" I broke down inside the rest of me just fully lost. we break up and within a month she has another guy staying with her. i had deep feelings for this girl i still love her and can not feel any anger for her. but now I just feel down and lost.
Last updated on:2026-06-02T21:02:25+05:30
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this is why you dont break no contact. i found out my significant other took a break from me and the same day she claimed this break started she started sleeping with another guy.
we had been together for 3 years so it wasn't a short relationship.
before she mentioned the new boyfriend moving in, were you hoping this talk might lead to reconciliation, or were you genuinely looking for closure?
both but I went through with the talk and I got my closure let everything out that I love her and was honest about everything
so now I have no regrets cause I was ready to put her in college and everything
i had an ex move on so fast that i started questioning whether what we had was even real, and that part HURT more than the breakup itself. seeing that message would've wrecked me too