I'm feeling really confused. I still miss my ex, but I don't really see how we could get back together, and I don't want to keep being the only one trying.
Lately, he has been reposting TikToks about missing an ex and wanting them back, which has made me question everything again. At the same time, I've started talking to a new guy that I genuinely like and enjoy spending time with.
I feel stuck between moving forward and wondering if there's still something unresolved with my ex. Part of me wants answers, but part of me thinks I should just let go and continue with my life.
What would you do in my situation?
Last updated on:2026-06-03T20:35:12+05:30
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if those TikToks didn't exist and you were only looking at his actual actions toward you, would you still feel like there was something unresolved between you two
if i was still the only one doing the work to keep a connection alive, i'd keep moving forward. reposting TikToks is easy, having a real conversation is a whole different thing.
my ex would post things that felt aimed right at me, and every time i'd start building stories in my head about what it meant. meanwhile, he still wasn't actually reaching out. that limbo is exhausting
if he’s just reposting TikToks, he isn’t making a genuine effort to come back into your life. if you really like the new guy, see where that goes. Don’t miss out on something that could be good over something that’s in the past! If your ex really wants to reconnect, he’ll make sure you know it…don’t let him get off easy with some TikTok shares and you’re swooning again…what message would that send to him? You shouldn’t be the only one trying, and if you are, maybe he’s not the one anyway. Much love. ❤️
Since its only u who kept trying on and on u have to let go they r not willing to do any effort for this to come back so u better move on with ur life and start focusing on yourself
Let it go amd find happiness. Focus on you.