Why did my ex reach out after all this time?

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Honestly I am really confused, my ex reached out, not to apologize for her actions or the way I have been treated or anything. I believe she reached out to just look after herself because my parents had seen her at the store and she didn’t say anything to them. I believe she contacted me to just let me know that like if she knew they saw her they would say something. I responded, with nothing cruel or really anything no emotion at all just more acknowledgment.

This really confused me because knowing her, this is very strange ish behavior but I think I am reading too far into it. I have to reset my clock and start to move on again.

Last updated on:2026-06-23T20:48:12+05:30

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kjxarles
kjxarles 3 days ago

what actually happened than what i thought it might mean. she reached out, you responded, and that's all the information you really have right now.

orphell1
orphell1 4 days ago

was there any part of you that felt relieved to hear from her, even if it left you confused afterward?

stargirl1
stargirl1 4 days ago

my ex reached out after months of silence with something that felt completely random, and i spent days trying to figure out what it "really" meant. sometimes the confusion hits harder than the silence because your brain starts filling in the blanks.

Cancer
Cancer 4 days ago

Its always when you move on then they'll start texting again 😒

PureMoodswings
PureMoodswings 4 days ago

in similar situation being cordial over text while ignoring the elephant in the room re the breakup