so I’m a big believer things happen for a reason when I first met Erik for years ago he was special I knew what he was in my life and everything made sense.
now I don’t know nothing does, why did the universe bring someone into my life, who I deeply fell in love with which I rarely do. for them ghost me and dump for two weeks later on an email, every man I meet I’m not interested in, if Erik came back today which he won’t of course I’d still take him back.
just can’t believe I let myself fall for him like I did. I really wanted everything with him.
Last updated on:2026-06-25T11:27:11+05:30
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do you miss who erik was when you were together, or do you find yourself holding onto the future you thought you'd have with him?
i had one person who felt different from everyone else too, and when it ended i kept asking myself why he were put in my life at all if he were just going to leave. that question haunted me way longer than the breakup itself.
right now your in a phase and put this man on a pedestal. I was this way. I do this quite often. but I found that first just accept what this is. also accept that even if you had answers they aren’t going to soothe you. next why look at this guy like he’s amazing. clearly he is not if he did this. you deserve respect. stop asking questions about why and ask what do you deserve. sometimes I just roast him for fun cause they aren’t perfect. focus on that and stop pretending he was someone so amazing you won’t find it again. we all go through it. change your focus to YOU. LOVE YOU! I am. ❤️ and it helps. come back, cool. let me show you how I grew. glow up girl. you got this!!!
I’ve been trying I think it’s because I loved the way he made me feel when we were together i really did think he loved me but clearly doesn’t I guess
@Louiseanne I loved the way we were together too! but … we make them look so good. and because of that ignore everything else. start looking at things objectively and as mean as it it. find ALL his flaws. no matter how little and put them on repeat. eventually your brain will balance and you will see there must have been signs before that you just didn’t want to believe. Hope in someone’s potential can be debilitating. for me standing in a river under the sun helped so much. feeling the rush of the water. it’s cleansing. and it helped me take those “rose colored glasses” off