I’m trying to understand how easy it is for my ex to not apologize for her wrongs and our relationship and how she was able to move on so fast with another dude. I truly sacrificed so much even when I barely had anything to give just for her to leave me. It’s so much pain in my heart for a person who doesn’t care about anything involving me. I’m assuming she already gave him what was mine so I’m no longer special in her world. I just want to forgive her but be done with her truthfully and get to a point where whatever she does, doesn’t affect me anymore. If anybody has a similar experience or advice, please share it with me during this hard time
Last updated on:2026-06-28T07:30:47+05:30
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my ex never apologized either, they just moved on like our whole relationship meant nothing. i carried the questions for months, and they hurt more than the breakup itself.
i was probably never going to get the apology i wanted. i stopped waiting for them to give me peace, and little by little i found it on my own.
'm really sorry you're going through this. can i ask, do you actually know she's happy with this new guy, or is your mind filling in the blanks because everything still feels so raw?
Definitely my mind feeling in blanks
so my ex left me saying she wanted to take a "break".. then I found out a week later she'd started seeing and sleeping with a guy the same day. this guy had been in her life and around her beforehand and I suspect they were intimate before she broke it off with me.
now I drove 2hrs one way to see this girl, and I bought her anything she ever asked for and gave her money whenever she mentioned she wanted something. I gave her all the time in the world to talk to me.
she repaid me by cheating, lieing and breaking all trust I ever had in her.
my advice? she is for the streets if she can move on so quickly after everything you've done and she's that inconsiderate.
focus on you, focus on your life. I found the gym to be helping me focus my mind and core of my being. I've slowly started to heal even with contact with my ex im slowly not caring about it anymore.
dont get me wrong the good memories will always be there.
you'll probably never get an apology. I found writing a letter about all my feelings and stuff towards what she did helped me. I then burned the letter because I wasn't going to give her the power.
@ItsNotEasy Your comments are always my favorite thank you so much bro
@HappyMoods462 no problem. sorry I've been Mia, I hardly get on here with me focusing on myself I find myself looking at my phone less. hang in there it does get better.
I’m so sorry you’re going through that. I also had my ex move on really fast and it hurt me. and I know what it’s like to sacrifice a lot for your partner. I’m still trying to get to a point where what he does doesn’t affect me but I’m not there yet, unfortunately. Everyone takes their own amount of time to move on and that’s okay. Just remember that there is nothing you can do to change what is or what was. Knowing what their doing and who their with does not do anything for you nor does it change anything. As hard as it is, protecting your own peace is the only thing that’s in your control. I wish you the best