hey, I'm new here. i always feel that everytime i got this ache in my heart. i always thought it is not important. this probably happened because I've never really felt being needed or important to anyone even with my ex.
long story short, all i have was my ex. she's the only company i have been. not having a single friend. or any relationship to another person, just her. now that she's left me. (caught here cheating) i was wondering, this feeling, really awful feeling, should get any attention. i don't know any person to talk to. i really don't have anyone to ask judgement on me. this is why im here. asking what should i do now? I'm really lost. i don't know where to go next or to do next.
Last updated on:2026-08-02T06:32:18+05:30
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are you close with your family that you could ask them?
family doesn't even care. they don't even show up to my graduation. but i still talk to them, i just don't expect they'd care about how i feel i guess.
i had to survive that feeling by myself too. the first thing that helped me was just finding ONE person to talk to, even if it was an online stranger, because being alone with those thoughts all day made everything feel bigger.
i was exactly where you are after my ex left, i had built my whole life around one person too. waking up and realizing i had nobody else felt like someone was sitting on my chest
i'm really glad you posted instead of keeping it all inside. have you been able to eat or sleep at all since you found out she cheated? and if this starts feeling too overwhelming or like you might hurt yourself, i really hope you'll tell someone nearby or call a crisis line too. you shouldn't have to carry this alone.