Why can't i let go after 10 months?

It's been about 10 months since our breakup. It lets me go from time to time, and there was even a rather long period while I was living a new life, even in a new relationship. But then it hit me, and it hit me even harder. I found this app yesterday, I hope it will help me stop checking her social media and hope that she will write to me and we will be able to talk normally...
I'm really really tired of this...

Last updated on:2026-07-10T02:49:11+05:30

Comments (7)

kyoselves
kyoselves 2 wks ago

10 months is a long time to carry this. the urge to check her socials like any other craving. if i could get through the next 10 minutes without looking, that was enough for that day.

Godzilladom
Godzilladom 2 wks ago

i was finally past it, then one random week it all came back like i'd made zero progress. those setbacks messed with my head so much

SweetTalk144
SweetTalk144 2 wks ago

yeah... I understand you, it's exactly the same situation... I hope you're doing well.

Bluebeing
Bluebeing 2 wks ago

i'm really glad you found this space. what usually pulls you back in, is it seeing her online or is it the hope that she'll finally reach out?

SweetTalk144
SweetTalk144 2 wks ago

thank you. she blocked me some time ago, so I can't see her online or her new posts (but I did it from a fake account). hope makes me check her. The hope is that I will see some kind of signal there. Although I understand that this only poisons me and I need to move on.

letitgo_user
letitgo_user 2 wks ago

how long have y’all been in NC

Royce
Royce 2 wks ago

keep going