idk i feels like i couldnt given the best anymore. i dont have enough money, i need to help my brother help his tuition, i couldnt even pay for a date but i cant say it to her. this is so embarasing, it's been 3 years were together
feels like i didnt have enough time for her, im trying my best to get enough money to help my parents but i think she wouldnt like it if she know. I feel she become colder and colder everyday cause i didnt have time. and it stressing me out also shes not more open about what shes doing anymore
sry about this broken english
Last updated on:2026-07-23T17:53:12+05:30
Comments (5)
have you ever told her what’s really been going on with your family and money, or have you been trying to protect her from that pain by yourself?
i spent so much time trying to carry everything alone that i forgot my relationship needed honesty too. sometimes saying “i’m struggling right now” is harder than any money problem.
feeling like my worth was tied to what i could provide. i remember hiding my struggles because i was scared my partner would see me differently, and that silence ended up hurting more
If she truly loves you, she will understand and even help you. If you are afraid that you do not have the support of your partner, ask yourself what will happen when in a few years you are sick?
If she was truly your person she would understand. I think it is admirable that you are working hard to help your family. The right person would think that way too.