life lowk has been better since we broke up. i may have days where i have the urge to reach out and solve the break up and i also wont lie and say i dont miss him anymore nor still love him but i realized i wouldnt trade the peace i have now for ‘love’ i only ever felt when he wasnt busy or when we weren’t arguing. he was a good guy, no distractions, locked in w life & family oriented — but there r just things that dont collide with what i want / need from a guy, and thats okay.
he thought me to know what i want and what i dont want in a relationship and thats the greatest act of love any man has ever thought me.
Last updated on:2026-08-04T20:28:12+05:30
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was there one moment after the breakup where it finally clicked that you deserved something different, or was it just a bunch of small moments adding up
really glad you can see that without making him the villain.
getting to that point where i still loved my ex, but i loved the quiet in my own life more. i never thought peace would feel better than waiting around for someone to have time for me.