Why did our relationship fall apart after seven years?

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our relationship had a lot of problems and in the end we both played a part in it falling apart. after seven years together i don't think either of us can put all the blame on the other.
now i'm left feeling completely alone. maybe i've felt that way for a long time and just didn't want to admit it. the hardest part is that we still live together and share our dog so there isn't any real space to heal.
all i want is to be wrapped in a hug and hear someone tell me everything is going to be okay that i can finally stop carrying everything on my own. but the only person i've ever wanted that comfort from doesn't care anymore.
i just wish i knew what it felt like to be truly loved or maybe how to let myself believe i deserve it.

Last updated on:2026-08-04T20:34:11+05:30

Comments (3)

jetblackZ
jetblackZ 3 wks ago

i spent so much time blaming myself after my breakup that i forgot i was someone who deserved care too.

StratLover
StratLover 3 wks ago

i’ve been there after a long relationship ended, and living under the same roof made every little thing feel like reopening the wound. i remember wanting one last hug from the person who couldn’t give it anymore.

saplash16
saplash16 3 wks ago

i’m really feeling how alone this must be. when you two are still living together, do you have any moments or places where you can get a little space just for yourself?