anyone here trying to reconcile with your ex? to a more healthy and safe relationship? what have you done to do so and what's the situation? I'm wondering so much
Last updated on:2026-08-05T21:02:12+05:30
How to rebuild a healthy relationship with an ex
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i get why you're wondering. for me, the only thing that gave us any chance was taking the pressure off getting back together and working on myself first. if we met again, i wanted it to be as a different version of me, not the same person begging for the same love.
your ex actually said they want to reconcile too, or is this something you're hoping for on your own?
no I'm still hoping. I have done a lot of work on myself
i spent months hoping we'd find our way back too. we did try again, but nothing changed until BOTH of us were willing to own our part. that hope is hard to let go of.
yeah it is and worried she will forget me. I wanted to go and talk with someone but she didn't. we have gone thru this before but we did not grow from it we did not learn. but I feel a shift and that's what the hope comes from. I'm trying to gives us two space to heal but I wanna talk to her cuz she's my best friend also and ask for a pause insted
I am but I also have lost hope in that.
why have you lost hope?