my ex and i broke up a few weeks ago because of a situation that happened months ago but constantly brought it up. i apologized several times but to this day he believes im a bad person. what’s confusing is that he would change his mind about it, one day he’d apologize saying it’s all his fault, and then the next he doesn’t believe he did anything wrong and it’s all on me. that was last month, right now he thinks he dodged a bullet with me, but i didn’t do anything personally to him but love him and care for him. i had nothing but pure intentions with him but apparently i was the one who broke his heart. now, it’s like he completely forgot about me when he once was ALL about me and completely committed and in love. right now he likes another girl and im absolutely devastated about that. i know this girl too, we were aquainted during school because she was the new girl. and she’s so pretty, and sweet, and i know he’s trying to become her friend so that it can eventually lead to something more. i just feel so betrayed and i just can’t move on. (i tried to keep it brief but i can provide more info)
Last updated on:2026-08-05T23:56:28+05:30
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i couldn't argue someone into seeing my heart the way i meant it. once i stopped chasing their version of me, i finally had room to breathe again, even though it took a while.
yeah, i need to learn how to just let him see me however he wants. it shouldn’t matter to me but it really does, that was my person
he says you "broke his heart," does he ever actually explain what he means, or does it mostly end with you apologizing while he changes the story
he made me feel horrible for something i didn’t do.
believe everything has an end.. just likeour lives and us also have an end.. accept the end and wait patiently for a new beginning
it’s hard to accept, but this means a lot, i will work on it
well speaking from experience if he was all about you and truly cared for you he hasn't completely forgot about you, he's probably hurting 2 but his body is trying to cope with the loss and the easiest way is to find a new partner (not that I agree with that method it fixes nothing and is just a bandage) and I know you're hurting and I don't know all the details but, you're taking the higher road by trying to work on yourself (or you wouldnt be on this app) It hard long road one I'm still at kinda at the start myself but all of these listening to everyones story's does help we are here for you, just take it one day at a time and hold you head up high girl it hurts but it will get better 💜
thank you so much i really appreciate it, that definitely made me feel a lot better about this whole thing. it makes me happy to know that people do care and im not alone, i hope you’re doing okay :)
hmm place where my ex kept rewriting the story, one day taking the blame and the next making me feel like i ruined everything.
right, mine kept flipping it on me to make me feel guilty about something i DIDNT do. it drove me insane