My girlfriend broke up with me two weeks ago. She told me that being with me brought back unhealed trauma from her previous relationship along with feelings for her ex that she thought she'd already worked through. They've been apart for almost three years but it's affected her enough that she's now working through it with her therapist.
I'm genuinely glad she's getting the help she needs but I've been left with this huge emptiness. I constantly feel sick to my stomach like I'm always on the verge of throwing up. I have no energy even the smallest tasks wear me out and everything around me feels overwhelming. I honestly don't know what to do anymore.
Last updated on:2026-08-06T18:06:12+05:30
Comments (5)
feel for you. And for her. Unhealed trauma is a MOFO of disastrous complications.
She still in love with her ex and somehow being with you feels like she’s cheating her ex and you become the villain in this messy situation.
How long were you two together for?
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you're not responsible for healing the parts of her that you didn't do